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3-18 9am Tommy, oversharing on social media?

Mar 18, 2015|

Tommy talks to Dr. Judy Ho, a licensed clinical psychologist, about "sharenting."

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Never alleged Food Network star of you ever seen actress no it's it's kind of terribly contrived but I like it'd its album on Sunday night and they pick the next. The next Food Network star who's for whatever reason never seen him on TV after that but. One ladies it was a contest and chronic Kristi you remember from two seasons ago was murdered. She's pregnant murdered by her husband and now he could be faced the death penalty but if you Google are named Kristi. He's closed the window the Christie from network food Stewart come opening in food starting companion read the story we get tickets giveaway breaking bad actor and standup comedian bill borer. Bring in his edging no holds barred comedy to this angered theater the show is Thursday April 23. And we get two free tickets sometimes it's hours sometime this hour just listen every day this week between six and ten. For a clip of bill burner and when you hear it you will be entertained and an immediate number to call color number eight is gonna win appeared tickets. Eight at ninety bucks we have one lucky winner today so keep listening to win 60 and right here. On debit Abby well general on air contest rules apply complete rules available letters studios. And on Debbie WL dot com. There is a story that we had yesterday on a website about she guaranteeing. On Iran as new polls says more than half of moms and 13 of dance. Post things about their children's health on social media. And I know what what needs to cut off for this why would you wanna do that with you children my would you wanna violate their privacy would seem like you'd be Morton's I'm concerned enough with what their posting let alone. To. To post stuff yourself. Doctor Judy hello joins us right now friend of ours licensed clinical psychologist and professor at Pepperdine University morning doctor. I'm well thank you for getting up early because Ian California right now. And seven on nine there but we appreciate it. Tell me that they share anything you do when did this start and and why in the world would people do it. On nine and will pressure on media alike are copies of and they are really using their children of the well you know court about that people there online. In their production they're not used to the world that the people that they think everybody wants them to seat the people they want other people at the and that to another topic area. That was. You bordering inappropriate because. And and it got kind of a secret out of my mom and dad shipping round. Scrape up their child and progress made today. And inning single human being and nobody cared about and yet they're not mine after the today. And I don't know what their doctor about weight. If you don't know in your licensed clinical cycle. I certainly don't know doctor because. First off I can't imagine somebody taken time to photograph their child's need. You know and enhance some kind of time lapse photography of it for eight days until it heals. And as foolish as that seems I can't imagine somebody taken the time to to watch it and to care about that I pressed ahead. I understand sometimes what's going on with social media I don't in and would com. Would postings on them like this in any way make you now bettors it. Egocentric thing that everybody cares about your little Sammy your little Susie. Yeah I believe that the engine prop but in the pocket and it under read it. So people trying to pump about them now because they're after some type. Reality or that the economic happier it to be on the court. I'd been out lately and I'm about however. The reader all but the more you do you're all shall are being in the morning. Actually gate let people. On the call them or not predict even eager and he makes it more I believe you. You're getting elected by the you Gilbert. Under our belt act and act now people are shocked at what impact that. A bomb in terms of did children in and that. And housing and stand up for themselves are not utter if the if they even have ascent access to the parents FaceBook pages at some kind of family activity where everybody should know their bodies posting. Well unfortunately because there aren't really actors know their children and so 8818. Did you know. About the children now when they're younger they go out. I got injured you know tell me what make of the union crap that all might not top of my mom not being so. PMI don't think it's called me getting ready for a back problem and it ridiculous that don't want people to mean getting ready for. Up. All my boy and ultimately all of apparent that our car out on the go on and you have anyone in the acting about it. On anything you land O wanting I don't ASCII. Now mom actually Joseph and I think is. Is striking back at people with social media with the Internet trolls we they to sing our host here Garland Robinette didn't show won this. Are these people mostly cowards. That just attacks people in the worst kind of way Curt Schilling had a problem as well with his daughter. Right and you know I think it doesn't help you to cut up and the fact when you're behind your computer and dirt on one of an entity. Do you like them being. Eager and in cart. And well and it actually increase the level we're at the and the ways that old when their online and in every corporate outing I. And I think there's an. And I don't over what about your children. Oh. Both of them who criticism obviously they're going to be people like a and the ball goes right. Yup like it was about that the particular act. On people called under odor are. At. Oh in the republic. Oh. Oh well why. Opposed to facing their share of eight we. Are at a I'll call eight one at her around the and I. And secondly we are being honored for post about it out repeatedly at. Government and really support our our coal out more curt called the our caller of the hour. A world of trouble. Doctor I appreciate your time I really do did you say your money your prom no. I not like it might sound not pick up the Big Apple that. I do not want it to quote about my problem. Getting ready partner probably like you know it. You know what I'm about getting ready for the bomb at the particular. Yet those and if you're on your promise I'll have my tuxedo from 1980. It. Does add ons are renal. I appreciate your time. Order to acting director Judy hello licensed clinical psychologist. And professor at Pepperdine University she just have a good date short. Jordan when he telling these guests. She says have a good date jordans of what exactly are you purporting yourself to be when you talk to these gas. It's an interesting point anything Shelden what was he saying these people. 916 to make Eagles we come back the do you propose things about your kids the ever read. About other kids you care what they post about their kids and privacy kids entitled to their privacy I'm kind of intensely private when he comes to it. You know conditions and those things like you know back in a flash right now time is April traffic and evidently. I'd 922 Tommy Tucker we get news Spielberg tickets on enough and you'll hear a little clip of him and you'll be entertained and laugh and then on you in the numbered. The call in and caller rates in the win which much guaranteeing. And putting information about Europe. You'd children on line let me clean this tempers and Lonnie information line through year. And is sometimes they get it wrong and in this case I did that Food Network star Christy Todd was not chip murdered by her husband at all. As a matter fact. She and her husband were murdered by somebody at least it's been charged with this it was about a half mile from there house. In North Carolina so wanna clean that up her husband did not kill her she was pregnant they were both murdered. And I apologize for getting it wrong. When it comes to share acting and that is posting information about your kids. It DUD give them a chance say in what you post about a and he say hey look. Billy I get this I think it's cute the way you rode your bicycle and fell down or the dog was too pulling you on the bike or whatever do you say is it okay. If psychosis on your friends' parents and see you know my friends and CNN will be. Out there Florio or do you just say you know what that's my camera oppose whatever I want. And some of the problems again happened with the sharing saying. There's a phenomenon called digital kidnapping. And what happens is lose strangers hijacked the images of your kids. And they present it and present him as being their own children. And sometimes it can. Cause dictation is parallel lives for the kids that are kinda hard to clean up. And there's another one cyber bullying you might think your kids the best look at in the world. And as a retarded about Internet trolls with the doctor in the cowardice involved in ad in the ugliness in the meanness in the lack of impulse control when it comes from imposing some that are commenting on something. Yeah you might think that your child is the most beautiful in the world is the cutest in the world. But Daniel idle or find comments are people lose re posting that. Betsy at least maybe have ever seen or. That blow it is akin mentally impaired those kind of things when you think it's cute that they fell on their bicycles and in no way am I impugning people who are mentally impaired I'm I'm just. Trying to give meaning sample of a look at happened Andy. Doctor associate director of the CS Mott children's hospitals says sharing the joys and challenges of parenthood and documenting children's lives. Publicly has become a social norm so they wanted to better understand the benefits and cons of of those experiences on one hand social media offers today's parents and outlet. They find incredible incredibly useful and on the other hand. Summer concerned that over sharing may pose safety and privacy risks for their children. Man in my view but I wouldn't post anything about my kid on the Internet that they didn't go for. Some of the topics that people post about getting kids to sleep nutrition and eating discipline. Daycare preschool and behavior problems and I think. Another issue and all of this is that once it's out there it's out there. On the Internet and and even as an adult the do you feel like you have the right to tell people your friends not enough I don't want that posted about me but then all of a sudden. You find yourself in the picture. You may colony no bottle at a T 60187. Meehan and have you ever had anything posted about you. That you regretted but once it was out there it was out there or maybe about your kids and do you frequently post things on FaceBook or social media about your children. Or do you feel like you know what they are entitled to their privacy and I don't want this to come back and haunt them later in life. If that is when you know about that I guess it would it is Gilbert tickets coming up and as a matter of fact I think you're gonna have a chance to win. Scripting pretty quickly here some of the other things we've been talking about this morning and you were welcome them weighing in on it in this. That's not ready yet where opinion poll what is more important. When you go looking for partners is it personality. Or looks. And as it stands now 83% are saying personality 17%. Are saying looks. LA comes your significant other what is it that first attracted you to them was it looks it was a personality and then what was that they'd sealed the deal. As for me I'm personality guy I think if if there's not the personality connection there. And you can't basically entertaining each other and love being in each other's company doesn't matter what you look like but I'd like to hear from annuity six of one point seven. I moved on and talked about concussions. And what happened with Chris Borland yesterday retiring from the San Francisco 49ers. After only playing one year. He was a draft pick I think a third round draft it. Manning had a very good rookie season. After making a million dollars for his first year and I think he was slated to make a million reaches the the following years this year included. He says no after having seen the effects of concussions and so forth and older players. And I'm gonna do it. So would you put your body and health on the line of play in the pros and what about your kids and have you ever experienced firsthand. Somebody with a concussion. And I did on Saturday and it kind of freak me out and Mamie and this whole concussion thing. Differently but with that being said if I had a chance to play in the NFL. I can't imagine myself walking away from an even knowing. All of the dangers of thumb. Of of what could happen in terms a concussion and long term health. And moved on talked about the controversy over paving of front lawn. If you don't have any off street parking and I would ask you if there is no off street parking where you lived what are you supposed to do. And there's a big flaw in the city's system because you don't need a permit to do business. You can for as much concrete Asia like. But apparently if you pay more than 40% of your property. You can be cited in agony you to hear it out. And I think it's a lot more expensive it's here concrete out then it is to put it down. And one and a few of problems parking in your neighborhood if your neighbors or you have paid your driveway. And is a cause and any problems I get a text from somebody earlier it's a blunt. Why don't they fix the blinking potholes instead of worrying about this. Yet another when it's you know one when I signed my mortgage papers new buddy told me about any of the mrs. mine property. I can do whatever I want. So like denotes music so when he seventy La Reid to weigh in on. And it is ours weather today yesterday I notice on the Camry it was a 86 degrees in this is around 536 decline. I thought the thermometer had broken and a lot of times when it says a new car will differs then the official. Meteorological. Readings I guess but I found hot yesterday highs around 7879. On Thursday. Friday the official start of spring comes in with a 30% chance for showers and highs around eighty. Elegant and of the weekend's still a long way off weather wise you percent chance for showers Saturday highs around 77. And pretty much same thing on Sunday. More when return right now tempered at W offers news and then we go to Chris Miller. An addition Christie's the you know concerns about water not being absorbed in their ground some signs causing flooding and everything else with the paved in. Yard. Regardless of where you live which you have a problem with your neighbor. Paving in their yard. Because I'm getting a text saying that it. It goes some kind of radiant heating or something that the concrete and I think his sister I remember my parents and as a unlike back in the day where there is more grass and I think every generation says this that it's the concrete that causes it to be so hot in the summertime and and announce their concrete could affect you. But would you have a problem if you neighbor kind created both front and backyard because they didn't like to cut grants. It does affect neighborhood drainage because instead of being soaked up ball let's just gonna run right off to somewhere else. Which I wonder if that's different and obviously I'm not an engineer. Because if you've seen me you know try to word calculating you know that. But I just wonder like you know get the build a different building codes now on would try to get. Jim domino on for an hour to answer questions about. Flood insurance tomorrow but when I see houses that are now built four feet next to house its deal with the lower level in everything and around there anyway. That's not absorbed into the ground. Or from their driveway. I I don't know I don't know I'm going to myriad of am I O I would. Com man I don't think I'd like to have everything kind created in terms of if it was legal in terms of front yard and backyard. Unless we have labors in earlier unless I hit dead artificial turf on it because. I think it be too high but then again that may absorb the heat I don't know because when you go watching college football game they say what. It's ninety degrees. In a press box or down on fields under to morning. So I don't know gimme cult T 601870. Would you bomb would you mind if your neighbor kind created everything. And would you rather have grass or would you rather have concrete in the front and back. It would be had with artificial turf and any other question is and in some text here about are pretty jaguar and people. Asking people what is more important even apart their personality or looks. I vote 100% for partner for a personality a partner for personality. Because. I think that's everything in and I think looks made nineteen imagine Sydney or somebody that's beautiful. And not being able to converse and Chris earlier you said that you're lucky enough to get boat. Right so you tell me at 260187. He will get your ride on and be like an instant poll personality. Or looks what is more important teal and a partner we're talking about for a long term relationship personality. Or looks as it stands now with their pretty jaguar opinion poll. 83%. Responding personalities 17%. Saying. Looks to 601871. Talk to you when we come back on that had to be well. My dad. You'd think it was throwback Thursday Lloyd price of personality native new on the Avian. When you look for somebody for a long term. Relationship personality or look. So without doubt. I would say 100% personality but then I get a text that says I have never gone to talk to will woman because I overheard her talking and thought. Hey she sounds like she has a nice personality. On its face them that would be exactly the thing that would make me approach a woman. Would be because if I overheard hurts you seem like she had a nice personality. Was not shy it was kind I don't know and I can't do shy. And that's another thing weed factory near 260187. He went and you do and what can't you do. I can't do passive aggressive I can't do shy. Needs somebody that'll stand up to me and tell me what did you pretty dumb ways and that. But in a respectful way that makes any sense Janet river ridge bemoaning evidently well. They'd Janet you Dylan. And doing well thank you tell me about personality or looks. We are now in Vietnam each party lit led paired in the end can't say that what say you should consider one of the beauties are at an end. I'm actually it happened so it'll still play well that you'd like electorate anymore and that expansion. What about when he comes to. You meet somebody new and any introduce a new your friends and is almost the same thing on. Social media about FaceBook where yet you'd did not ranking but you're sharing on social media that you found this person. You'd think he's the one or she look I'm ready to make judgment. But then. Even though they have a sparkling personality they thoroughly entertain you. DA care if you win you when you bring up to your friend you drive an opening Kaymer with duct tape it and make it a metaphor there the analogy between net. And a person do you care what your friends are gonna think what they about what they look lag if they're tall she or at. That they in now all night. You're going to be that person early you have to make your packets were bad for that Jeremy would watch or friendship which excepting that like that but that's going to be your part. Would you tell somebody OK he's a very nice guy he's in his oldest man he's bald visas season's opening. I'm now I don't have children now explain to me it's like they're under pepper and I were on the same date that's it's important. Janet it's seems to me like you are very well adjusted and you have your priorities like these should be. I thought are you with somebody now and I'm just wondered when it was at his personality that drew you to him or her I don't know. Really well and I'll yell many other. And what is it about the personality and what can you do and what can you not do. No one and it being a great chicken pocket you can agree to that degree of being good natured and you are a pretty you're gonna get an. Think it's that important relationship as well. The governor of 35 years. And when you go to dinner just to review you always have something to talk about. There Alina mamet and get out of the track and Beckett out but he is that are each other. It's pocket and that duplicate talking. I thank you again and play well I'll be our day it is. It the right button to 601870. Fueling get involved. In terms of drain agent streets attacks comes in Tommy it's illegal for water from your property. To roll off on your neighbor's property of mustering property properly. And I certainly realize that because I got. It's a long story but I know part of it is developing it is an idea what the drainage again. Another sixes yesterday Mike doesn't put on FaceBook yesterday that a four year old daughter was in the hospital with a disease. And asked for prayers from everyone. And Ang get that but. Do you really want everybody. And I guess it only be people are you. Friend on FaceBook knowing that. You child was sick. And it. How important are these differing characteristics when it comes to you finding a partner Harry you know high eight. Oh wait. If there an exercise freak in your pretty sedentary would be the deal breaker. Maybe smoking nonsmoking etc. 2601870. Texans in right as they say that cannot date anybody who smokes. The boring of a backing you date somebody that's boring would you be willing to spent your life with somebody like that even know their good look and and are so busy working thereon. They're out to Lloyd's and it tabloids that. Then early in any time new readers have anything to discuss with you. His sex comes in do you think women want a rich bad boy or a nice guy who's four and eight another consideration areas. Do you want the trouble or do you want the dependable. Enacted that cuts both ways I think of the dependable model do you want that you know this they Camry or do you want the up Ferrari that's going to be very high maintenance. Tommy this is beautiful girl from my high school they constantly post over and over about each new beau being. Bill one but they never make it. I just deleted her because no one has the nerve to tell her she's picking wrong and it goes to some others that. FaceBook and social media sharing his well let. You know you're wrong about so today elected as the guy is guy Marion is a wanna marry and she's my soul mate three weeks later not so much Garland coming up. With the think tank. He does O study and so all you have to do is think today's Garland Robinette she owes some great topics more drug addiction. More drug overdoses more drug dads and guess what it's not the young. It's middle aged baby boomers. So hot we teller children just say no when we're saying yes. And dying. And Carl what's note you know any adults who are hooked on pills pot cocaine heroin. Or some canals. You know one of my pet peeve some people say alcohol and drugs because. Alcohol is a draw again and ninety Garland could best suited to his question there what about alcohol. Although illegal product. Assuming congress in the senate sending veiled threats to experts who would deny global warming. Scientists think tanks and trade groups. Who don't believe god letters demanding information about who funds their operations. And summer saying it's blatant intimidation. Can you make a believer out of a non believer with threats. And do you believe global warming is a real threat. And three NFL players under age thirty quick big game out of fear of concussions and other injuries you think it's a trend or a blip. League says pro football safer than ever and Libby gets even more protective is that what you want. Do you want NFL football even will be more predictive. And safer than it is today climb inside the think tank with Garland Robinette. 956 Tommy Tucker listen gradually needs David Dumont because one impaired ticket seat comedian bill borer on April 23. But over the saying you're theater and I know many shows dynamic side notice when it would get a team together with Jordan. And myself. And Shelton just like they did for India pelicans game last weekend in among announcement. And we listen and again in this show is April 23 at this anger listening in tomorrow for another chance to win and if you wanna buy tickets. And not wait until the show is sold out and thinking get them go to Ticketmaster dot com or call 80745. 3000 but will have some more for you to give away tomorrow here in debit WL now we talked about concussions. And football players in Chris Borland garlands gonna continue to discuss that. A attacks and comes in I think these NFL players are wrong for that they took spots on an NFL roster. Then other players who didn't get drafted could I had their dream as an NFL player and make a career out of it I'm not a fan of these guys saga about. Against Chris Borland in the type that. That quit Sidney Rice city is a veteran on Patrick Willis. Pretty young in his career considering what a stellar career could be also walked away. And just didn't see myself doing and I get Italian if I had a shot in the NFL and was doing well. And you know I realize a lot of NFL players don't hang on to their money and and mine down the road but it but it it was a very successful guy. And I can walk away from that. Angela hale weekday afternoons and evident you know you certainly don't walk away from that they kick things off of 1 o'clock with what's trending. On WW well you'll find out everything that's going on candid funny in depth discussions. About the day's top trending stories and so many times you go home much news. And that's exactly what they're talking about on trending today in joining Angelo with Dave Cohen team bubbly beer and Ian hope then had to. Sound off with Angela about the day's hot topics and at three. She did talk real estate what areas are great in new loans are hot hot. And what's not. Is rent leveling off we're still soaring a reprising locals out of the market. Members of locals who are scoring big not outsiders. And of the fears of some a new loans will become a boutique city becoming a reality or is it mostly good news. I know this if you try to prod buy property in lake view. You'd better have deep pockets. And I think you chance to really. I know was meant thank you chances to make out well there has gone by what about commercial property as an angels gonna talk about. How much is still available under what cause she's gonna have weighed rate is real estate consultant and economist whether. And Arthur stairs servco local real estate analyst. So make a date today with legendary in Julie hill weekday afternoons from one to war. Right here in the legendary debit W well thanks for listening Garland coming up next with the think tank then in two and then Bobby. And especially this Kristian garic today I think in for Deke. On sports talk led that you listen thanks thanks to Jordan Feagles Shelden Williams and Ryan Newman not to mention. Chris Miller will talk to tomorrow morning bright and early at 6 o'clock.